By Joy Lynn Clark 02/17/2025  I first moved to Chicago’s Northside as a student in 1996.  I spent a lot of time taking the bus and the train to learn my way around the city.  I did not have the benefit of learning this with my many family members that also live here because I am the oldest of all of the grandchildren.  In the “building” I was right in the middle, too old for the kids, too young for the aunts and uncles. Even though I had just done that reality talk show, I was already in a different area learning how to live as a grown up.  When…